Theory and research based on the experiences of adult twins

Twins in Conflict

Category: Parenting Twins

Helping Your Children Learn to Listen

Helping Your Children Learn to Listen An old behavioral problem that has become new again. Why are parents, teachers, and friends are facing defiance? Social issues that include disrespect for parents, friends, and authority figures are more prevalent because of the rigidity of rules related to the coronavirus pandemic. The

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Strategies to Work Effectively at Home During School Closure

Strategies to Work Effectively at Home During School Closure A project-centered approach. Parents and children are faced with a new and complicated challenge of developing homeschooling and online learning as this is now the only option for educating their children. Schools are closed at all grade levels. Parents are now

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When Twin Fighting Won’t Stop

When Twin Fighting Won’t Stop The most commonly asked question from twins who visit me online or in person goes something like this: “My twin and I have not spoken to each other in years because we cannot agree on how to get along. Our parents, siblings, and friends want

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How Twins Can Help One Another

Some facts about twin conflict that need to be talked about openly. Popular culture and mythology suggests that twins have an ideal relationship. These stereotypical ideas have infected our meaningful understanding of twinship. In reality the opposite is true. Twins have a very difficult time getting along. More often than

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Twins Can Teach Non-Twins

Twins Can Teach Non-Twins The power and comfort of closeness. Throughout history, twins have been considered to possess special magical powers. In our culture, the twin relationship is idealized as a perfect mirroring experience that builds confidence and security throughout life. Outdated and fantastical, this myth that needs to be

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The Legacy of Twinship

The Legacy of Twinship When the life stories of all the adult twins who spoke with me are considered together, some “truths” become evident. This chapter will summarize the most important findings of this study. No one finding is more important than another. Not All Twins Are Alike The most

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Double Trouble and Twin Power

Double Trouble and Twin Power Changing Side Effects and Meanings Throughout Life Born together. Holding hands as one. The closeness that twins share is irreplaceable. Their deep attachment as twins is as primary and as crucial as the mother-child bond. Watching twins as they grow portrays their closeness and the

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Parenting Twins Is a Monumental Challenge

Simple rules for parenting twins. No one could really disagree that parenting is a complicated responsibility. Maybe that is why saying “parenting twins is even more complicated and demanding” is hard to believe. But when you spend time with twins, you will get a sense of the intensity of their

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